Self - reflection

It is easy for you to judge a person by applying your own thinking. Most of the time, when a person is doing judging is based on his/her first impression on one thing, one person, one incident, one news and etc etc. He/she will never consider the feelings of the person they judge, they just talk what they want. But it'll be different when you put your feet in others shoes. And today I've experienced the feeling.

I've hurt someone who very close to me, even I didn't think to do it purposely. I feel so awful and my heart is full of guiltiness. I used to critic someone about "his" selfishness, but today I know I can be a very selfish person too. But there are reasons for me to make the decision. The moment I made the decision, my heart is like stabbing by a knife. I have to to do for my result, my future. I hope the friend can understand my situation. No matter what, I've bring up a scar in our friendships. I know it is not easy for it to recover or disappear, but I hope it will do one day. I am so sorry, my friend !

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Lesson if today : Never judge someone easily, try to put
your feet in others shoes before you do so.